Why do some men simply avoid commitment, commitment... marriage? Here are the most common reasons:
Loss of freedom
Men are extremely independent by nature. This independence is primarily manifested on an emotional basis. They like to manage their own time, make their own decisions and adapt their environment to themselves. In a relationship, unilateral moves rarely end in success. Suddenly, the organization of time and activities becomes a matter of compromise. Free time turns into shared time and they no longer have as much time for themselves as they did before. One of the most common fears of being tied down, according to the prestigious portal askmen.com, is precisely the fear of losing freedom.
Pressure
We enter marriage with "For better or for worse... until death do us part." In addition to sounding like a judgment, it puts a certain pressure on us at the very start. He vows to love for life when you don't even know what tomorrow brings, and it doesn't really make much sense. This is supported by the growing number of broken marriages. We enter a relationship with the best of intentions and let time pass. Pre-written scripts only work in movies. Any pressure on the partner very often brings a counterproductive result.
Lack of trust
Some men, taught by previous bad experiences, find it difficult to open up emotionally in a relationship, thinking that it is doomed in advance. If they do not manage to get rid of complexes of lesser value, every relationship will end in fiasco. Shaky self-confidence, a tendency to depressed behavior and lethargy hold many men back from starting a relationship in the first place.
Immaturity
Not all men are up to the task and dedication. Physical growth is not always accompanied by emotional growth. We must admit that it is not a rare case when a man takes on the role of another child in marriage.
Own choice
For some men, family is simply not a priority. The lifestyle they lead and the time they devote to themselves does not include a serious relationship or marriage. The times we live in offer many alternatives in which many find themselves.
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