The kiss is exciting, full of passion, it is sensual. A real kiss, that is. He is the spark that starts the excitement. And if the kiss lasts, you feel your heart beating faster and faster... And it's a wonderful feeling. So why, after a while, do we seem to forget that we kiss like that with our partner, even though there is no doubt that we love each other and that it feels good?
What is the matter, why does the "French" kiss seem to go into oblivion when the relationship enters a calmer phase?
It's pretty simple when you think about it. A French kiss (if you know what you're doing) more or less guarantees that there will be sex. And immediately. Or, as soon as you get your hands on the nearest convenient place.
Such a kiss has a purpose, then. Not all kisses are "intended" for excitement, some are kind, some are full of love, but the right kiss... That's the point after which there's no going back. The point after which you can't help but go to bed.
So why then when we are in a long relationship or marriage do we stop kissing like that?
First, such a kiss takes time. And he can't stand the routine. Children, work, life together. Even waking up together, as wonderful as it is, endures for a very short time. And then – the French kiss disappears. You are left with love, of course, security, closeness... but the kiss is not returned.
Second, after a while, it is no longer necessary. You know that you want each other, you enjoy making love, but you no longer need such an expression of passion, because you already know what "drives" the person you love. You don't need to research anymore.
And third, your relationship becomes more mature over time. In other words, “get old”. And you no longer need to prove yourself, checking if just one kiss is enough to get her to bed. Because you know she wants it as much as you do.
The French kiss may disappear, but in return you get something much better - security, a mature passion that does not require childish proof. And love, of course, is transmitted by Beauty and health.
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