In a situation when nothing is going right because our partner left us, we failed an exam, we lost our job, and the bills are rising, it's hard to be optimistic. But just as heroes are known through hardship, so should we rise when all our ships sink.
And while these situations are difficult for some, for others they are real gold, says motivational coach Ivan Kosogor.
- Not only are they the best way for us to progress, but I believe that they are also the only true way to succeed. Instead of fighting them, I suggest we start learning from them, and now. Life is a song, and every song has an end. The question is how we will dance to the melody that was given to us to hear - Kosogor tells vividly.
Many say that it does not depend on us whether we will be optimists or pessimists, that we are simply born with a certain view of the world. But our interlocutor is convinced that there is a recipe for optimism.
- It reads: go outside and start working! Remember every mistake well, so you don't repeat it. Celebrate every victory, but keep going even stronger. Live one day at a time. Because a successful life is ultimately made up of each individual day. The puzzle is made of a large number of parts, and the complete picture depends on you - Kosogor is convinced.
Despite skeptics, who believe that not everything can be solved with positive thinking, Kosogor believes otherwise.
- The power of positive thinking, God, the universe, the inner guide, are just names for what no one has yet been able to explain. It's not about positive thinking, it's about accepting yourself. Because the moment we accept ourselves, we stop doing everything that is bad for us - concludes the motivational trainer, reports Novosti.
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