Being consistent is key in this situation.
To make going to kindergarten less stressful, it is necessary to tell the child in advance what awaits him there and teach him independence. This advice was given by educator Ekaterina Ostrovskaya.
"The predictability of events always reduces anxiety. Talk to the child about the plans for the day and follow them: if you agreed to pick up the child after lunch, keep your promise," Ostrovskaya said.
She also mentioned that it is necessary to provide the same routine in kindergarten and at home. In addition, according to her, it is not good to immediately leave a preschool child in new conditions for the whole day, it is better to gradually increase the time.
The pedagogue says that the morning separation of parents from children in kindergarten should be quick. She advised not to tell the child: "Don't be afraid." Instead, he recommends that you wish them a good time, tell them when you'll be there, and stick to it.
Child psychologist Amanda Abel previously warned that parents often make a big mistake.
"As much as it may seem like a less painful option, never leave without saying goodbye. Sneaking out will only create more anxiety for your child," she said. Instead, she suggests parents say goodbye to their child and promise to return.
This period, although challenging, can be important for the development of the child's educational and socialization skills. Amanda emphasizes the importance of consistency. Despite the initial challenges, kindergarten or school represents a positive phase of a child's development and provides him with a basis for the future, reports N1.
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