Should you tell each other sexual history?

Do you sometimes think about your partner's past loves? Do you think that in his past relationships there was the level of intimacy that you have now? Maybe you are also interested in what your partner thinks about the quality of sex with you and ex-girlfriends? First of all, ask yourself why you care so much about your sexual past. When a person is interested in a partner's former love, there is often restlessness and anxiety, even concern about the current relationship and existing problems. Maybe you just want your partner to calm you down, and let you know that he doesn't compare you to your exes or judge your abilities in bed, reports ordinacija.hr.

Think about how much you want to know about past loves. If you're just curious, that's fine. When you start a more serious relationship with someone, talking about past relationships will sooner or later come up on the agenda. Perhaps by looking into that part of your lives, you will understand how your relationship will progress.

Of course, you can also be overly obsessed with that information, which then becomes unhealthy for your relationship. If you're constantly scouring the Internet for pictures and information about your partner's ex-girlfriends, think about what motivates you to do so.

Here are some tips on how to maintain a healthy dose of curiosity, but also to deepen and build a quality relationship. 1. The key to a healthy and successful relationship is the present. Focus on what you have in the moment, not the memories. You will gain security if you turn to yourself and the person you have next to you, and not by digging through the past and comparing yourself to other women. 2. When discussing your sexual past with your partner, it is important to be honest. You both need to agree that you are each other's source of primary intimacy. If your partner is turning to ex-girlfriends for emotional support, then you don't have the opportunity to fulfill that part of his needs. In these situations, the connection is not satisfactory.

3. Be patient. Just as trust isn't built overnight, you can't suddenly become close to someone. It takes time and effort to build real, genuine physical and emotional closeness with your partner. 4. Remind yourself that there is a reason why you are no longer with your ex, but in a new relationship. It's easy to worry about not living up to someone else's expectations and being compared to someone else. In those comparisons, you'll have the fatter end. Let go of bad thoughts, and make an effort around the person in front of you.