A life without love is a life without true joy, and we all need it, no matter how unimportant some say it is. They say love makes the world go round. Psychologists argue that the need to be loved is a primary human emotional need and is the driving force behind society.
However, there are stereotypes that create a wrong image of love. If you stay away from them, you will be happier.
1. Love hurts
If it hurts, it's not love. Love is our medicine, it gives us strength and confidence. Whoever does you harm under the pretext of love does not love you. Love should bring peace, faith in a better tomorrow, bring us back to our feet when we are thrown to our knees, and not bring us even closer to the ground.
2. Jealousy is love
'He loves you so much that he can't let you go for even a second', this is another terrible misconception. Love gives freedom. Love does not suffocate. Wise men say that the one who holds your hand and doesn't let go doesn't love you more than others, but is afraid of losing you.
3. Love is blind
Some say that they love their partner so blindly that they don't see their flaws. The one who loves sincerely knows other people's flaws and accepts them.
4. Love is complicated
It's just the opposite. Love is completely simple and easy. If love brings you pain or requires daily struggles and sacrifices, something is wrong. True love is tender and full of tolerance, it brings joy, not pain.
5. Love has an expiration date
Someone confused love with passion. Passion can simmer for years, but most often it has a shelf life. Psychologists say that falling in love lasts three years, but it's still not love. Love cannot be broken. It only changes, but does not pass, he writes gloria.hr.
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