The only person who truly knows your body is yourself, and only you can tell your partner what pleases you and what doesn't. In order to be satisfied with your sex life, work on the following four things:
1. First study the 'exam material' by yourself, and only then start studying with a "colleague"
When we say test material, we mean your body, and when we say colleague, we mean your partner. Metaphor aside, the more you are in touch with your body, the easier it is to notice what turns you on, and that will help you improve your sex life, writes aska.rs.
2. Talk. If you're mature enough to have sex, you're mature enough to talk about sex
You've probably heard it before, but repetition is the mother of knowledge. We live surrounded by sex. Condoms and vibrators stand proudly on drugstore shelves, and you still stammer in front of your partner when "tricky" questions like masturbation or your favorite pose come up?
If you don't talk to your partner, the only one to blame for all the orgasms you missed is yourself.
3. Forget about black or white. Sex comes in a thousand shades
Orgasm doesn't come in one size fits all, and neither do those pants they advertise on television - we all agree on that. Talking about sex is extremely important, but you should remember that what suits one person does not necessarily, and most often will not suit everyone. What exactly does that mean? Talk and share experiences, but keep your focus on the practical approach. Do your research, it won't be hard for you.
4. Relax, this is about sex, not quantum physics
Whatever you do, however you do it, whoever you do it with, do it because you want to and how you want to. An open mind is the best recipe for a quality orgasm.
So, explain to each other what pleases you the most and do it every chance you get. Fulfilling your desires and enjoying your "sexual appetites" will make you have an explosion in bed every time and truly enjoy it.
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