Love, trust, understanding - many will agree that these are the three most important things that form the foundation of a love relationship. Many will agree with the statement that inner beauty is important, not physical beauty, and that a suit does not make a man...
However, physical attractiveness puts the visual in the foreground, and we as a species cannot fight against that. Appearance is what will attract us, and inner beauty is what will make us stay with a certain person.
There are relationships that are based on the right values, but the people are just not sexually compatible. Imagine a situation where you feel loved, but passions cannot be awakened.
For example, you are never in the same mood for sex, and when you are in the same mood, one wants one and the other another.
Although there is no official definition of sexual compatibility, clinical psychologist specializing in sexual therapy, dr. Christopher Ryan Jones, explained what it was all about.
Ask 100 people what the definition of sex is and you will get 100 different answers. Depending on how similar your definitions are, how sexually compatible you are, said Dr. Jones.
Read below which signs indicate that you are compatible with your partner and that your sex life can improve.
1. You're in the mood for sex at the same time
Of course, you won't be in the same mood all the time, but if you notice that you haven't practiced tenderness in bed for a while, and your partner (or you) is sabotaging sexual activities, it could mean that you're not compatible after all.
2. You have the same kissing style
Some will say that a kiss is much more intimate than sex. It's a sweet token of love that makes us feel like teenagers in love. Jones explained that there are countless styles of kissing, and most people stick to the one that comes naturally to them.
If you enjoy kissing your partner, you are definitely sexually compatible. In addition, research conducted at Oxford and published in the Journal Of Sexual Behavior, says that those people who were great kissers at the very beginning, almost always had a great sex life.
3. Sex is a pleasure, not an obligation
Experts believe that long-term partners should make sex a priority. Work, children and daily responsibilities usually put sex at the very bottom of the priority list. If you are both aware that life has deprived you of pleasure and you want to change that, it means that you are sexually compatible regardless of the fact that you have not committed to each other for a certain period of time.
4. You both like (or dislike) trying new things
Some people develop louder and some quieter sexual intelligence during their lifetime. Some like tenderness, and some like roughness. Some like to be dominant and some like to be submissive. If you, for example, like to be inferior and your partner is dominant, this is a sign that you are sexually compatible.
One example is the sexual preferences that people today call fetishes. If your partner has a foot fetish, and you find it extremely repulsive - it means that you are not sexually compatible after all.
5. You are good at communication
Communication is the key to a good relationship. Knowing how to tell each other what you like and what you don't like and what your desires are in bed is another sign that you are sexually compatible. There is no better way to improve your sex life than through honest and open communication.
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