Each of us "speaks" one of the love languages and it is very important to know which one is yours, as well as to be able to recognize the one your partner speaks in order to understand each other better. The thing is, what makes you feel loved isn't necessarily what makes your partner feel that way. However, that's not all.
There's another type of expression that might help you heat things up a bit in the bedroom. It is called the language of lust, and experts point out that there are four forms of this language that each of us "speaks". So, when you determine which is your lust language and which is your partner's lust language, you will find it easier to understand each other about what turns you on, so you can take your pleasure to the highest level.
Romance
Many of us speak this language. Its essence is to create a good mood, that is, an environment that shows the level of effort to make the loved one feel wanted and loved. Imagine a long walk by the river, dinner in a fine restaurant, watching a movie and cuddling until dawn. Perfect. Experts claim that the way to a romantic's heart is filled with love messages and small, carefully selected gifts, reports Women's Magazine.
Harmony
This lust language focuses on support and shared responsibility. Its essence is to make you feel as if you are on the same team with your partner. It is very difficult for a harmonious person to get excited in bed if their partner neglects household chores or forgets to fulfill a promise. However, she'll be more than ready for action if she comes home to find the kids perfectly tucked in bed, the dishes done and the laundry stacked.
Connection
A very strong emotional connection is necessary for this type of people to feel excitement. Their desire for intimacy is connected with the feeling of security with their partner. Such people are less prone to one-night stands and do not "fall" for love at first sight because they need something on a deeper level. They seek connection with a loved one, shared interests and fulfillment of emotional needs. The ability to openly express wants and needs is the ultimate driver of those who speak this language of lust.
Primary language
At the opposite end of romance is the primary language of lust. People who speak this language prefer passion, excitement and novelty. Also, a strong physical connection is essential. These people are prone to fetishes and similar things related to sex, but not necessarily. Although they will be excited by sexy toys and clothes, more than anything they like physical contact, that is, the touch of two bodies. They do not need an emotional connection to make passionate love with someone.
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