All experts and amateurs who deal with sexual life agree that communication is key to good sex. Sexologist Emily Morse agrees with this, and wrote on her profile that one sentence is the key to igniting passion in the bedroom.
"In my opinion, the most exciting thing is when your partner asks you, 'Do you like this?'" she says.
It is clear that talking achieves a lot, so it is not out of place to ask your partner from time to time what he likes in bed. In this way, you will create the possibility to improve the relationship, but also get confirmation that what you are doing is exciting.
Sometimes desires can change, so that your partner no longer likes something you did before, and hesitates to tell you.
"Some of us think that our partner should intuitively know all of our sexual desires, but this is rarely possible. This way of 'checking in' during sex, and letting our partner know that he is doing something well, leads to greater pleasure, deeper connection and "better communication in all spheres of life. This is the key to success in sex," says Emily.
And that she is on the right track is also shown by the fact that the majority of the Internet community agreed with her. "I love it when my partner asks me if I like something. It also makes me quite excited," read one of the many similar comments.
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