Although it is not easy, women should not take it too personally if a man loses interest in her after sex. It just shows that he wasn't there for her from the beginning and it's better that he left now than after ten years of a bad relationship.
As some would say "the sea is full of fish" and somewhere there is surely a man who will love a woman with all his heart and be happy that she is his, not only because of sex but because of who she is inside and because he feels fulfilled with her.
Five reasons why some men lose interest after sex:
1. He wasn't interested in anything other than sex
There are those who would do anything to get to the woman who caught their eye and take her to bed. But, after a passionate night, they lose interest because it is no longer challenging for them. They got what they wanted and move on.
It didn't happen because a certain woman was bad in bed or something was wrong with her, but because she met a superficial man.
2. He thought he was in love, then realized he wasn't
Such men may honestly think that they are in love and that they like the woman, that they got to know her quite well in that short time, and so on.
But, it happens that after sex they get the feeling as if they are with a stranger, that they don't really know that woman and the butterflies in their stomach disappear. They actually confuse the feeling of passion and lust with infatuation.
3. There is simply no sexual attraction
Sometimes a man and a woman can be very attractive to each other, they can talk about everything, have similar interests and so on. However, when it comes to sex, they realize that there is no sexual attraction between them, that is, that their sex is mediocre.
Some men will then lose interest (as will some women) and will not want to maintain such a relationship.
4. He got scared because the relationship got too serious
Men sometimes run away because they are afraid of the way the relationship is going. A woman falls in love with them after the first sex, it becomes too serious, and they are not ready to commit to someone, so it is easiest for them to run away.
We can call them cowards, but they better leave because if they're not ready for a serious relationship - that relationship wouldn't last long anyway.
5. Not all relationships are meant for the long haul
The moment a man and a woman become sexually intimate is the moment some things crystallize. Some relationships last after that, but some are doomed because the partners find out
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