Yes, the meeting can go very well, but the moment you find yourself in bed, the situation can be very unpleasant. And how could it not be? When you meet a person for the first time, there is no intimacy, you are not as liberated, and sex can be frustrating. Except you have built up your own expectations in your mind. However, this does not mean that sex cannot be improved.
Of course, we're not talking about sex where the other person doesn't respect your boundaries, makes you feel insecure, and feels absolutely no chemistry. We are talking about a situation where you both have the desire to enjoy sex, but it takes a little effort to "unlock" each other.
If you are interested in "this case", Women's magazine has tips on what you can do to improve if the sex was bad.
Stop thinking too much
When you are under a lot of stress, the next step is to go into a process of over-analysis, which causes you to lose yourself and forget about the "here and now" moment. Also, expectations are a trap. The moment you see that you are not satisfied during sex, you enter the process of comparison, so you stop being grateful for the moment.
The truth is that if you focus on what's going on, you might be surprised by the sexual chemistry that can emerge. Experts even advise to "get out" of your mind and focus on your body. Focus on your hearing, smell, taste and all your senses in general.
Be open about what you want
There is no good sex without communication. Whether it's a new acquaintance or a long-term relationship, open communication about preferences, desires, and fantasies is the key to quality sex. And if you're worried about how to say it, you don't necessarily have to use verbal communication. You can show with your hands or your whole body. But if you want to talk to your partner, before you politely point out something you'd like him to do differently, say something you really like.
Avoid performance anxiety and enjoy the moment. Suggest new things, make it fun, and if something goes wrong look at it with humor. There is no better way to get closer than to laugh at the "little imperfections" together.
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