By asking this question, you create an opportunity to confirm that what you are doing is exciting, or that on the other hand, you allow your partner to tell you what he really wants.
Sexologist Emily Mors wrote on her Instagram profile that one sentence is key to igniting passion in the bedroom.
"In my opinion, the most exciting thing is when your partner asks you, 'Do you like this,'" says Morse.
Even if you are convinced that you know all the wishes of your partner, there is always room for improvement.
By asking this question, you create an opportunity to confirm that what you are doing is exciting or, on the other hand, to allow your partner to tell you what he really wants.
"Some of us think that our partner should intuitively know all our sexual desires, but this is rarely possible. This way of 'checking' during sex and letting our partner know that he is doing something well, leads to greater satisfaction, deeper connection and better communication in all spheres of life. This is the key to success in sex," Emili believes.
The majority agreed with her: "I like it when my partner asks me if I like something. He asked me once in the middle of sex and it turned me on, I think every man should do that," they wrote to her.
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