A recent study published in the journal Computers in Human Behavior found that the way couples meet their partners can significantly affect the quality of their relationship. A survey of 923 married Americans found that couples who met online reported slightly lower marital satisfaction and stability.
The results of the study showed a clear "online dating effect". Namely, the participants who met their partner via the Internet reported somewhat lower satisfaction and stability in their marriages.
According to Annale Östling, therapist and relationship expert who wrote the relationship book "Stora relationsguiden", there are several differences between couples who meet online and those who meet offline.
"What I can see is that couples who meet online often expand their horizons by dating in other areas. This becomes an additional factor beyond meeting a new potential partner. Some may have to leave their safe neighborhood or city where friends and family are. They have to to spend more time making practical things work, which can make it harder for a relationship to flourish," she says.
Sexologist Bianca Schmidt doesn't really see any reason why you couldn't have just as good a relationship with someone you met online as with someone you met at work.
There are just a few different "getting to know you" challenges to consider.
"The old concept that a relationship will be more 'sincere' if you met in person is disappearing, I would say. The advantage of online dating is that you can get to know the person to the extent and speed you need before you decide to meet in person. That way is more practical," says Östling.
Top dating tips from experts:
Commit to real dating. Honesty and understanding should be the focus from the start, followed by building trust, mutual respect, and shared values.
Approach dating with a positive attitude. Replace fear and caution with curiosity and excitement.
Be honest. Get to know yourself and your needs before you start looking for a partner. Be honest and open about who you are and what you want from a partner.
Take your time. Don't rush into a relationship just to avoid loneliness. Focus on finding someone who complements you and shares similar values.
Build a relationship based on trust and mutual respect. These are the foundations of a healthy and long-lasting relationship.
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